The Question of Blame

It has been written that every relationship with some person is in deed just an illusion. In reality - every relationship we have is a Relationship with ourselves, and only ourselves. So, when you find something you don't like in your partner, for example he/she is too jealous, or he/she is to shallow to understand some things, or he/she doesn't appreciate what he/she has, you actually found something you don't like about yourself.
So, don't blame your partner for not understanding your needs or whatever you blame him/her. Just accept it as he/she is. When you accept another human being just the way it is, you will finally accept YOU.

I must admit - I (quietly) blamed my partner for being so spiritly shallow, so captured by materialism, so not tolerant with another being's needs and beliefs, but now I realise - who am I to blame him? And to blame him for what? For showing me the ugly side of me? No! He is Love, he helped me to see that I too have a bad side on which I have to work on. I haven't seen that until now. I feel like a horrible person, but I can't blame myself neither. Actually, it's noone's fault. Everything is a Game of Love, and we all are here to learn from the mistakes we made, trying not to make mistakes again. I wanna be free of the material wishes and desires. A Pleasure - invisible by eyes, untouchable by the hands, is the only Reality. But it's a long and hard way to go through.
Enough writing, start walking the right way ! :)